Doesn’t it just break your heart when you hear a child tell
about not being able to sleep due to nightmares? Due to working with elementary
aged children most of the time this is a common occurrence for me. Sometimes the nightmares are related to
watching scary movies, related to general anxiety, or are associated with trauma.
While this is not an area of expertise for me, I have had some great success in
helping children overcome nightmares.
When a child reports they have had a nightmare, I encourage
them to draw a picture of it. As they are drawing or towards the end of their
drawing I have them tell me what happened in the nightmare. They are to describe in as much detail as
possible. I also ask questions about
their senses in the dream to see if they could recall sights, smells, sounds,
tastes, or things they could feel. Next, we discuss the villain or the theme
causing the fear from the nightmare. If
it is a monster or a bad guy, we discuss his powers that make him scary. Next, we discuss a superhero who could beat
the bad guy. They will then talk about
what kind of superhero it would have to be.
They call tell the story of how the superhero beats the villain from
their nightmare. In the end, I have the draw a picture of the superhero
overcoming the villain.
I have had clients as young as 3 years old put this into practice
and overcome nightmares. It can
sometimes be a repetitive process of rescripting the nightmares, especially for
a child who has experienced more extensive trauma. However, my experience has been that they
make great progress. I also explain the
process to parents so they can work with their children at home. Having them talk about the nightmare and draw
a picture soon after it occurs can help then process it before they start to
forget the details.
Update: I recently created a therapy game for nightmares. It is called Nightmare Ninja. You can read about it here: http://pathwaystopeacecounseling.blogspot.com/2018/03/nightmare-ninja.html
Update: I recently created a therapy game for nightmares. It is called Nightmare Ninja. You can read about it here: http://pathwaystopeacecounseling.blogspot.com/2018/03/nightmare-ninja.html
Credits: I learned about rescripting nightmares in a CEU class
by Lisa Demarni Cromer, PhD from Tulsa University. Her experience and research far exceeds the
information I gleaned form the class.
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